Man this is a tough one to address but I will and Im gonna be honest with you...I live in a area with gays and so I see the shit everyday and have come to realize that its here and we need to understand that people have choices in life.
Self explanatory I cosign.
Your post could be interpreted in many ways hence my response.
I could be wrong but its seems that only you interpreted it "another way" nobody else has...but then there is a chance that everybody else is wrong along with me.
When you say something like "damn what a waste" about a cute girl to me that sounds like you had some sort of attraction and wanted to keep it, but as soon as you found out she was gay you lost it. Hence "your wants" "her wants".
No, cute girl was my description of her - meaning, she was attractive to me... NOT I was attracted to her. BIG difference! (which I find hard to believe that you would confuse the two) and if that wasn't enough...then I said... Im a happily married man so a cute girl is just that...a cute girl. Now stay with me on this because this one gets tricky...the "damn, what a waste" was in reference to her being cute and gay, in other words..."waste" meaning that a man would be more appropriate than a woman.
Did your daughter say she didn’t want ( as you put) "A subliminally planted and unwanted seed" or did you decide that for her? Was she somehow affected by the image?
No my daughter wasn't with me, I said "she could have been with me" so lets just say she was with me for the sake of answering your question...My daughter is 7yrs old, I make THESE kind of decisions for her. To a 7yr old whats more important, a day at McDonalds or paying the light bill? So clearly she has absolutely NO say in THESE matters until she becomes of age to understand....what age? I dont know but 7yrs old aint it in my household.
Do you feel the same when a man and woman share the same affection?
No, I don't condone public acts of affection but a man and a woman is natural, 2 men or 2 women is unnatural.
Now, as far as gay people go... Thats a choice that they make, whether I like it, except it, agree or disagree with it is irrelevant, I have a first cousin...my mothers twin brothers son, who is as far as I know, is gayer than a $3 bill, however he has bailed me out several times when he didn't have to. He's in the same business that Im in and its a very high risk business... real-estate, he has done much better than I have, he flies from coast to coast in his own private jet, he has cooks, interior designers, chauffeurs and so on... I have my family, thats it...my point is... being gay doesn't make him a monster to me nor has it affected our relationship in any way.