Not being able to take criticism, and other insanity!

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thedreampolice

A backwards poet writes inverse.
ill o.g.
Battle Points: 21
Long, but please read.

Ok so as I alluded to in the other thread I had a crazy bitch went nuts story with another artist (a writer)

So this writer contacts me and wants me to compose a theme song that she can use to get funding for her film. And of course for free. On this note, I actually disagree with god (the illmuzik member, not the deity) on this point. Free work has made me lots of money in the past, and has connected me with paying clients, discussion for another thread....

At any rate, so I am thinking about the viability of the film and if I should get involved. This chick calls me like twice and day and wont leave me alone, she also likes about every freaking post of mine if facebook. Of course she promises that I will make all this money when the films makes it big (of course as you all know, most projects don't) and my BS radar is going off. Also she wrote "lyrics" to said theme song and gosh they are not very good and they tell the ENTIRE STORY in the lyrics. On top of that, film theme songs rarely have lyrics. Also I get the feeling that she has no clue what she is getting into, and that is ok. But I kind of want to clue her in. So she calls...and calls...and finally I send her this email


"ok so after mulling over it a few days, here are my thoughts. First off, I appreciate your passion. That really goes along way with me. My concerns are as follows, after discussing this projects with several of my director and camera person friends that I have worked with on projects in the past (one for example works on NYPD Blue, and another director makes all the TV commercials for Rockstar games, IE the Max Payne commercial that you have probably seen on TV) and have both worked in independent film (as I assume this will be an indy) They feel that the budget needed to complete the film would range between 500k and 750k. Do you think that level of funding is possible? I would like to think so, but boy I have a feeling that would be a major undertaking. Second I have some concerns of the theme music as it is currently described. In my humble opinion to complete your goal of having a piece of media that can sell the film, you would need something with strong emotional connection and both high and low intensity. The current lyrics are more of a narrative then a theme. I can picture them as a country song, but I think it will be a tough sell as a theme. For the most part theme music has little to no lyrics, and VERY strong emotional connections. For example, think of footloose. The song has a strong connection in your mind to the plot of the film, but zero of the lyrics actually relate to the plot. Also think of the Rocky films, you can just hear “eye of the tiger” playing just thinking about them. But again the lyrics are not in narrative form only emotional connection. Also look at the current trailer for the Great Gatsby

in the opening the director Baz Luhrmann (who is probably the most musical director alive, he did moulin rouge and strictly ballroom. ) Uses Kanye West’s and Jay-Z’s track “No Church in the Wild” and here are the only lyrics heard

“I stand by you, walk through the fire
Your love is my scripture”

then the trailer busts in to Jack White wailing “Love is Blindness” and that is about it.

Also, I think that to sell the idea of a film it will take a very strong visual. Maybe it would make sense to self fund a short 3-5 minute film and use that as marketing. Build some amazing visuals and music, draw people in emotionally.

So to sum up

#1 I don’t think the current written lyrics will meet your goal.

#2 I think you will need a strong visual presentation to sell the idea.


Hope that helps, and I hope none of this is offensive I am very blunt person but to be honest that is why other artist like working with me. On another note, it would be fun to get the film off the ground. I would love to score the entire thing and do all the foley, sfx etc.

Anyway, I look forward to your thoughts. Thanks!"




SO she calls me and leaves me this ranting voice mail about how her lyrics do match the story and I have not read the book so I wouldn't know (no idea why she thinks this is my point as it is the EXACT OPPOSITE!)She also says I had no right to talk with my friends in NYC about it, of course she has a public facebook page about the film. And on and on with nonsense that is not even my point.

She calls back like ten minutes later and I answer..

She says she is making the song anyway, and it will be a huge hit once the movie is out and I don't need to worry about it any more. She says the lyrics match the book perfect and if someone reads the book the lyrics make sense, of course I reply "but your target audience has not read the book" This falls on deaf ears...

WOW, so I told her sincerely that I hope the film is a huge success and I wish her the best but I am the wrong guy for this project. Within a few hours she defriends me on facebook and that is what.

HOLY CRAP. Some people. Honestly, had she been calmed and discussed my points I was temped to do the work. But I cant work with someone who freaks out when there is the slightest disagreement.

PS oh she also said the famous line. All my friends say that lyrics fit the book and are fantastic. Yup I am sure your friends and mom all love it. BYE



anyway, lots of fun!
 

Fade

The Beat Strangler
Administrator
illest o.g.
Moved to Industry Talk.

This sounds nuts. In this case, I think it just comes down to the typical story of today's "artists" trying to do something big but have no clue. Not saying that I know what I'm doing but for this story it's more or less about common sense.

Plus the whole "you'll get paid when this shit blows up" line is so played out. I can't believe people still use that!
 

Formant024

Digital Smokerings
ill o.g.
I disagree on the lyrics + theme part though, easily as much great themes have been written around the lyrics (although maybe partly related to the flick itself). Ill throw the titanic card at you and wash my hands for even typing it, but as such there a great many more ost that to point out that your argument on that is invalid.

Aside from that and especialy when offering to work for free you have to take your own rep up front and conclude if the outcome is a good promotion for you. You concluded that its not and pointed out politely whats wrong with the concept. Her response to that is highly improfessional, nothing you should bother about really.
 

thedreampolice

A backwards poet writes inverse.
ill o.g.
Battle Points: 21
@Formant024 naa you agree with me. The lyrics for titanic are not are narrative, They are emotional. Her (the crazy writer) lyrics where a narrative and does not fit with the theme motif.

and normally I would not even post anything like this, but her reaction was so insane, I needed illmuzik therapy! :)
 

UNORTHODOX

Father Timeless
ill o.g.
Battle Points: 44
Aside from that and especialy when offering to work for free you have to take your own rep up front and conclude if the outcome is a good promotion for you. You concluded that its not and pointed out politely whats wrong with the concept. Her response to that is highly improfessional, nothing you should bother about really.

Basically. Keep it movin
 

Sucio

Old and dirty...
ill o.g.
Battle Points: 304
"my friends say it's good"

You have to be fucking kidding me.


How the hell does she think she could make it in entertainment, if she can't take criticism? She's around "yes men", and are obviously gassin her which is a detriment to her personal development as a person and an artist.

The fact she unfriended you also showed how unprofessional she is, she took constructive criticism personally. I look at it like this: If and when you produce a record for an artist, even though the artist is the main focus of the record, since YOU are the PRODUCER, you have to say something constructive if something isn't really going represents you as well.


BTW, God was mentioning doing things for free for your own promotion which would lead to something bigger...which is not really free...and since they led to further paying projects, there was a benefit to YOU in giving something away.
 
BTW, God was mentioning doing things for free for your own promotion which would lead to something bigger...which is not really free...and since they led to further paying projects, there was a benefit to YOU in giving something away.

Yes I agree, there is a difference between doing something for free, and using your talent as leverage for something like free promo. Its like going back to the barter system. 3 chickens for a goat.

As for this woman, she is obviously very new to this, I think most of us went through that stage of getting amped by our friends, and catching feelings at criticism. But its one of those things that you eventually get used to and dont pay too much attention to.

I think its best it turned out this way early, than before chris had put a lot of work into it.
 

Sucio

Old and dirty...
ill o.g.
Battle Points: 304
I was never like that when it came to CONSTRUCTIVE criticism....

I did get mad, but I directed my anger towards getting better....



The sooner people realize that not everyone is going to like their shit, the better off they'll be.
 
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