Love Story Gone Awry::

[SupaStar]

I know this is a producer forum where really we should be focusing and toninig our production skills. But I hope y'all dont mind if I vent my frustrations out a bit. Y'all remember that big announcement I made in the forum about being engaged this Summer to the girl I am with now. Well, its been called off due to the uncontrollable desires of women, and shit I had it good too and was ready to step out the game in my suit and armor to fight off any distractions. It turned out that last night, my friend came by my crib around 2:30 am panting and out of breath, telling me to come quick, so without even dressing or putting on a winter coat. He dragged me out the house without telling me what the deal was, and in his hand I noticed a camcorder. I was scared to death, I never saw him drive that fast or took so many risks ever since I've known him. But we got there just in time, to see her, I wont call her a b#tch, and we video taped bout 40 mins of footage of her gallavanting in the club. Could y'all believe it, the woman I am suppose to be engaging with in a couple of months. So, we didn't approach her and we went home, I took my stab in my heart like a man. Drank some Hpnotiq and went to bed.
The next day I invited her to the crib and I asked her how come I wasn't able to reach her the night before. Her excuse her phone was on discreet, and she was tired. Thats classic isn't it. So, she was under the impression we were gonna watch Dirty Dancing, her favorite movie. I tell you its only love that truly allows a man to stand through that movie. But instead of the Dirty Dancing tape I slipped in the one from the night before. Oh man here reaction was classic as ever, she started crying and begging, y'all know the regular mushy stuff. SEEN IT, HEARD IT ALL BEFORE, so I just kicked her out my crib and told her to take her Dirty Dancing tape with her too. She still got my engagement ring, but at this point I really dont care. So, bachelors just want y'all know that Krzy's fully back in tha game. And prolly wont mention the word love for a long, long and let me add another one, long time.
So, if any advice besides liquor on how to fully cope, let a nigga know,
Thanks For The Love Fams
Krzy K.

 

[KENWOP]

just keep ya head up dawg fu#k that bitch atleast you found out before you got married na mean now you no da real stay up put ya pimp hat on and get back in the game holla

 

[StressWon]

Dam K,,,scandalous! My advice (Even tho I'm married) is go get laid mad quick! The more time with other one nighters or side pieces, the faster the pain goes away! And watch out for the rebound girl,,,,since its still fresh, keep an eye out for the next month,,she will be lurking, dont get caught up by the Rebound situation either, go have sex like rabbits man!

 

[afriquedeluxe]

man am sorry bout that and theres no way i cud understand how bad it is cuz i aint been there. but wen i got things buggin me, i just turn to making music, most times its an anti-tode for me

 

[eka]

Just make BEATS and put all your anger and frustration in there.
it is f#cked up man, I'm sorry.

 

[Fade]

Krzy, that's too bad. It sucks that this happened, but you just have to keep your head up. Of course, take some time to get over it, because moving on like nothing happened isn't good.

When I was reading your post all I could think of was that would be something you'd see in a movie! Showing her the tape and all that. And throwing her out with her Dirty Dancing tape, LOL!

 

[soundboy2]

STAY WITH HER MY DOGG!!

All man, do you mean she was just dancing in the club, whats wrong with that. Now I would leave the bicth for lying to me all the time but the dancing aint that bad, any woman that you gonna wanna be with, is going to have a wildside. If she dont ,she's lame as hell. Espeacially young girls. BE open and cool and don;t make her lie. Don;t look down on her if she wanna go to the club and shake her ass, long as she dont fuck another dude. She's must have a lot of good qualities if you was that close.

YALL CAN STILL WORK IT OUT , ONE LIE SHOULDN'T RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE, TAKE SOME MORE TIME TO GET OVER THAT UPFRONT PAIN BUT GIVE HER A CHANCE,
BUT MAKE HER BEG LIKE HELL

SEE NOW YOU GOT THE UPPER HAND LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER.
STICK WITH IT , THATS WHAT MARRIAGE IS ABOUT. NOT, YOU TELL A LIE, NOW I'M LEAVING .

TAKE IT FROM AN OLD PLAYER, MAKE SURE YOU DOING THE RIGHT THING, DONT ACT OUT OF ANGER.

 

[Equality 7-2521]

^^^^ disagreed.

you deserve better Krzy.

im really sorry to hear this strory. i havnt been there so i cant understand or offer advice.

just be strong and take it like a man. problems are a part of reality. your smart enough to overcome them.

chin up bro

 

[Shonsteez]

Yo Krzy, im really sorry too man...that sux more than ever, and i kno how it feels...not to that magnitude, but ive had my fair share.
Yo man, i agree with Mess, you deserve way better...Heres a simple question?
If yer willing to be faithful and loving to her, is she willing to do tha same adn be as real about it as u are???...If not, kick her to tha curb!!!
Plain and simple.

If i kno anything about females its this:
*Most are honestly crazy and wierded out in way or another.
*Tha ones that arent are very RARE, they do exist but their harder to find...when you find one of these chicks grab on tight and dont let go, they mean tha F'n world man.
*Its like Method Man said..."Nothin make a man feel better than a woman"...I take that as a REAL chick tho ya kno?
*Please note im jus tryin to add some positive words to help u out man...i really cant pop some advice on ya since its another time and another place, and i basically wasnt there.
*Most of all...DONT TRIP TOO BAD!!...That shits rough, but that old saying is really quite tru!..."theres other fish in tha sea"...

Youll find yers homie!...Dont dwell on it tho, let those girlies come to you.

Stay up K.

Steezo

 

[Synopsis]

Whatever you do don't just sit around and dwell on it bro, best to be active, been there before and thats what's helped me the best. That and boxing.

 

[Ash Holmz]

girls are at their absolute wildest right before they get married and thats the honest truth..... im not giving any advice on the situation cuz i nevr been in them shoes.. but to be honest i have known a few girls that "fool around" when there engaged... hell i was the one doin the foolin on one ocassion....they dance they may even kiss but it dont go further than that ... soundboy makes a few good points man.. but ultimately its your decision fam... good luck i hope u can come to clear solution

 

[N.U.G.]

get yourself a better chick playa!

 

[Kramit]

I agree with synopsis dude. Make sure your around good friends for the next few days, always doin stuff to keep ya mind off the situation, thats if you wanna ditch this chick.

If ya didn't quite wanna give up on her yet, I agree with Holmzini. She's probably just getting the most out of her last days as an unmarried chick. Guys and gals do the same ish, I mean what does everybody do at bachelor parties and hens nights? They hire strippers, get drunk dance like freaks and act a fool.

Most people have given some pretty helpful advice, but ultimately its up to u bout what to do. Hopefully u make the right choice. Good luck dude.

Kramit

 

[mono]

sorry 4 you man, how disapointing...but better now than later!!
head up!

 

[WingsOfAnAngel]

sorry to hear this man...
i know that you deserve better.
good luck my friend!

 

[SupaStar]

Let me elaborate a lil better, it wasn't only dancing, she did everything up in there, that I dont want to discuss.
But its not so much that, its the lying man. If she'd have came out and told me the truth, maybe I would've been understandable a bit. But to be blatant like that, makes you wonder sometimes. What else she been lying about? you know. I cant be back with her with that thought in the back of my mind. Its gon be nagging me all the time, and a probably wont be able to fully trust her. That translates into one boring relationship, I definitely wouldn't want.
And thanks fam for the advices, I am out the city for a while, I am at my aunt's crib. Getting that good ol' home cooking, nothing cures a relationship gone awry, like some soul food. Expect some emotional beats from me in the showcase soon.
Holla
Da Krzy One

 

[tricky spinz]

Damn Krzy. rough times. one thing i would suggest, dont hang around with like, a friend and his girlfriend. cuz seein them together is just gonna put that thought in your head. i have never had anything nearly that serious. but i mean, right after i've gotten out of a relationship, and i was hanging with my friend and his girl, that was all i could think about. so just chill with the guys, OR the ladies who arent spoken for. try to get a little lovin maybe. nothin much, just some comfort lovin. you know what i mean. or if you want bang the hell outa her. whatever makes YOU feel better is what you oughta do.

 

[Muzik]

Yo man it seems one thing after another wit ya!!!! yo you need to stay out and keep ya mind off her... the more you dont think about the situation the quicker it fades away... Tricks can cloud your life with bullshit i dont study tha muthafuckas .. LOL find um, fuck um,forget um,
there as bad as us now ... Keep ya head up... Mine told me that i was
to "into tha whole music thing" ... bitchin al tha time about shit... id rather buy equipment spend time with a bitchin trick seeing new equipment in tha crib always helps me out on that tip.... Fuck um.. LOL
On tha beat tip ... ill be lookin for those tracks... Be cool yo...

 

[nasir jones]

We all make mistakes.Give her a chance if you love her Krzy !!

 

[classic]

yo im sorry to hear that man. try to stay postive.

as far as advice goes u have to follow your heart and do whats best for you. Dont listen to anyone else but yourself

Like u said, use that pain as fuel for great music.

Some of the best music comes from pain


good luck and god bless

class....