Thanks for the comments and please keep them coming. I am writing a paper about how the Black man have forgotten how to love Black women. I'll look at hip-hop's influence, family socialization of Black males, the new down-low shit, and even the rise of Black men fathering children with multiple women.
Let's be realistic, hip-hop does have a strong influence, along with other things. Maybe men have disrespected women for ages, but those were different kinds of societies. Our society has become more egalitarian. In the slave years, Black men actually signed themselves back into slavery to stay with wives and family members. Where has that love gone? Surely, women play a part, but what could they do when so many of us disrespect them? They must adapt or be alone. Unfortunately, many women choose to adapt. If we can change that they'll follow.
Quack