Also, I'm currently not keen on the 'make for yourself' concept people like to chuck around. If you wanna do something for yourself, have a wank or something.
Obviously I make music that I like, or how i feel it should sound (or at least try to, and fail miserably). But if you're sharing your art/music, then to say it's just for you is on some level bullshit. If you make music for yourself, why you sharing/posting it?
I mean of course you hope other people like the shit you make, but at the end of the day if I like the shit I make I'm content with that. I mean really, I'm the dopest person I know hahaha
*edit* It's been a few hours, but I've spent a good portion of those hours actually contemplating on what you said here, and I don't think my answer was sufficient and I don't want to leave this at a pithy response. The point I've been making the whole time is there's plenty of heads that still like that early 2000s shit, particularly in context theres still an endless supply of new heads, and it isn't going away any time soon. Like I said from my second post (and basically everyone else here), depends on what you want to do with it, I'm just speaking from my own personal opinion. If you want to get big placements, yeah, stay relevant or get left behind.
For me its a matter of what do I want with music? I don't take it seriously and I'm certainly not there yet to even think about taking it seriously. If you do, thats on you to figure out where you want to go with it. I will say that you are very good at what you do. You and I are on similar wavelengths for the sound that we like, and you're definitely better than I am at it.
Granted if I was in a position with producing where I should take it seriously; I'd see it as a detriment on what I would want to do with music if what I made was on the tracks of someone who doesn't even enunciate more than the last word of a bar.... if that. I would rather strive for people who have bars. There's always underground fame (which TBH would be way less fucking work on social media, and doesn't require you doing shit you'd rather not be). From what I would imagine, doing so would allow you to find someone who is on the same wavelength as you when it comes to the shit you produce and you could actually be cool with the people you're around. From what little experience I've had seeing the people online getting their placements it's nothing but a means to an end. You make a beat, they buy it, and that's it. You're not making anything special, infact most of these dudes don't take any of it seriously at all and will treat you like a dancing monkey who's only there to entertain their bullshit because they're the new hotness. You disagree, they're out. No money, nothing.
I mean, I'm still a nobody, so I can only attest to what I think, but I don't think I'm wrong.
Having said that, if you want to modernize your sound the first step is learning how to modernize your sound. Obviously you're having some issue doing that when you try, but before you do that there's no point in concerning yourself with relevance. I know you can do that at the very least, you already know what you're doing enough to get that far, it's no different to learning how to make the shit you do now.
I tried my best to make a point in saying when something is a personal opinion, because this question is at its very core a personal one. Hence why the majority of the responses from people here weren't a "You should do this" over a "This is why I'm doing this, and its up to you what you feel you want to"
This is actually far deeper an philosophical dilemma than I thought it was when I first answered, not that I've really changed my opinion, but I think it made me understand a bit further why I look at things the way I do. If that means I'm falling behind that's fine I guess, but that's on me.