man i swear females is trippin man... its a damn shame ... today my girls starts trippin for no reason...... again ..... she loves to pull arguments out of thin air... i mean right out of air .. she crossed the line today ... she calls me from her job asking questions way too personal for anyone but our ears to hear ..... she asks me right out of nowhere if I would want to have have kids with her ... wtf??? i was like what??? i told her i dunno know and that was a very strange and wierd question to ask .. ... especially over the phone from your job....... i am def not ready to have kids and blah blah .. then she goes into this thing about how she wasnt talking about right now she was talking about the future and the way i answered her question just proves that i am not in it for the long run and i am not responsible and i have nothing to offer her and basically that i suck as a person .. im like yo call me back when you wanna really talk cuz this is bullshit ... and i hung up on her.... fucin crazy right???? whats wrong with these girls???? evrytime i try to be a good dude and stay true to a female its like first off they dont believe me and second of all they just get crazy!! man i swear evrytime niggas try to be loyal and on they job these girls give a nigga a reason to just sssssmmmmaaaaaaasssshhhhh and leave cuz the longer you stay around the more fucin problems arise outta sum bullshit .. i swear i didnt even do shit wrong and somehow now im the bad guy ... im not the drama type i dont go for the drama and the arguments and shit.. im i good dude with a good heart and im like the most chill and understanding dude and if chicks is looking for reasons to create drama im like ppppppeeeeeeeeaaaaaccccccccceeeeeeee!!! ... anyways i typed too long long live the ssssssmmmmmmaaaaaaaassssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!
y these girls be trippin??? damn,,,,
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Fade
The Beat Strangler
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Sounds like she's got issues and she spoke to her friends. Yeah my money's on her friends feeding her thoughts. Maybe she wants you to smack her around or something LOL. But seriously, that just sounds like some bullshit. If it was me, I'd tell her to save the soap opera episode and move on, or I'm gone.
Formant024
Digital Smokerings
ill o.g.
or like mike labs...on her period
nah!! thats how women are. ive been with the same girl for 7 years (since i was 14) and she says that shit EVERYDAY! i used to argue with her but now i just say "uhu..sure...yeah baby..." while im playin' ps2. dont get me wrong i aint no punk but shit just gets old and i really dont feel like arguing with her regarding something that i know will just fall into place. Good luck holmz
RigorMortis
Army Of Darkness
ill o.g.
Holmzini's SIMS: SMAAAAAAAAASHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
but yeah women are hard to please, if you are doing everything right you are still doing it wrong, if you really love her try to start the argument again but unlike her do it in a normal manner and try to figure out what the hell the real problem is, let her know how you see the future and ask what she thinks about the future. It is essential to know for the both of you what you want and if you both can agree on that or the future will hold useless debates about things you cant fullfill and dont know about.
If she starts flippin again you know what you got,.
Then it is either goodbye, to dr Phill or a 3way chat with gyal.
but yeah women are hard to please, if you are doing everything right you are still doing it wrong, if you really love her try to start the argument again but unlike her do it in a normal manner and try to figure out what the hell the real problem is, let her know how you see the future and ask what she thinks about the future. It is essential to know for the both of you what you want and if you both can agree on that or the future will hold useless debates about things you cant fullfill and dont know about.
If she starts flippin again you know what you got,.
Then it is either goodbye, to dr Phill or a 3way chat with gyal.
U have to understand women are never statisfied man, u can give ur girl 10 orgasims she will want to know why u dident give her 11, thats just the nature of women.
But fade has a point, that sounds like her friends talkin, u have to ask yourself if she is worth the bullshit casue everywomen has bs, some are just worth putting up with and others need to kick rocks. Thats a decision u have to make.
class...
But fade has a point, that sounds like her friends talkin, u have to ask yourself if she is worth the bullshit casue everywomen has bs, some are just worth putting up with and others need to kick rocks. Thats a decision u have to make.
class...
x-squizet
Roll Tide Roll
ill o.g.
shit man thats just some straight up drama, hell but like the rest of them said prob her friends was it around lunch break when she called, if so she was wit her friends or talkin to her friends then decided to start shit up with you about kids and shit, man i hope you the best tho man
Louie Lou
ILLIEN
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Battle Points: 25
All I can say is what out homie. Child support can set you back a few ducks. Trust me, I know. When the relationship wears out, you'll be stuck with responsiblities you don't want to have. There goes the new keyboard and sampler and record collection and sanity. 
RigorMortis
Army Of Darkness
ill o.g.
Kids are great, but only produce kids if you got a good plan for them and not toss em away like useless junk. I work every wednesday with kids, and some of these kids are screwed up for life because of their fuckin parents. Bad kids are in 9 out of 10 cases the result of bad parenting.
Producer_GyaL
IllMuzik First Lady
Holmz, i guess tonight, you had that talk with your Girl. Something i've learned, as far as im concerned, is that girls tend to act in the moment. They should wait and think before acting.... In Fact, it happens often for a lot of people in general, not only girls. I looooove soap opera LOL, but both of you were wrong. She was wrong to call you to ask that question out of no where to make you feel bad about it, and you were wrong because she was trying to explain her issue and you wanted her to back off. Nobody was heard. Anyways, It is a good test to see how you guys will resolve this problem. If she is the one you see as a partner for life, i hope you guys will know how to understand each other by respecting each other's limit.
Ps: wanting to have a baby sometimes is really a drama? Man, maybe she is just in love and want to make sure you feel secure for a future with her...
Good luck.
Ps: wanting to have a baby sometimes is really a drama? Man, maybe she is just in love and want to make sure you feel secure for a future with her...
Good luck.
I feel what yer sayin PG, but maybe Holmz jus wanted to talk about it in a civilized manner rather then havin fingers pointed at him through tha phone....I mean, who wants to be randomly accused of having bad intentions in theyre relationships outa the blue and at work of all places....Thats fuckin wack if u ask me.
Im with class....Either her friends got to talkin to her or she jus watched a depressin movie and it made her think about havin kids.
STEEZ
ps. Me and my girl had the baby talk long long ago, say about 3 yrs ago.....trust me dude this talk is normal....gettin hit up on the phone like that tho is a little odd on the other hand. I remember letting my girl kno that i didnt want kids at the time tho and it really hit her hard at first....She didnt take the time to grasp the concept of what i was gettin at. See, at 1st she was jus like - so do u jus care about sex then?!...Im like what!?....Hell nah, i just really like havin sex with you baby! lol ....dam!.....Trust me man......chicks will link wierd shit together in order to put the pieces of the puzzle together...basically, id jus make sure she knows how u realyl feel....Id retell her that stuff, and then explain how she shouldnt jump to conclusions without consulting u first....Trust me man, been there done that.....If shes as true the game as u are u will work it out and she will come to grips.
Im with class....Either her friends got to talkin to her or she jus watched a depressin movie and it made her think about havin kids.
STEEZ
ps. Me and my girl had the baby talk long long ago, say about 3 yrs ago.....trust me dude this talk is normal....gettin hit up on the phone like that tho is a little odd on the other hand. I remember letting my girl kno that i didnt want kids at the time tho and it really hit her hard at first....She didnt take the time to grasp the concept of what i was gettin at. See, at 1st she was jus like - so do u jus care about sex then?!...Im like what!?....Hell nah, i just really like havin sex with you baby! lol ....dam!.....Trust me man......chicks will link wierd shit together in order to put the pieces of the puzzle together...basically, id jus make sure she knows how u realyl feel....Id retell her that stuff, and then explain how she shouldnt jump to conclusions without consulting u first....Trust me man, been there done that.....If shes as true the game as u are u will work it out and she will come to grips.
RigorMortis
Army Of Darkness
ill o.g.
DueceMade Ent. said:
Word 2 that
Formant024
Digital Smokerings
ill o.g.
make beats
not babies....
not babies....
yo i appreciate evryones comments... the thing that was most suspect tho is the fact that i have not known her for that long at all... we talked and u guys are right .. i belive she is just really into me and scared im going to leave her for whatvere reason and she wants to feel secure... she def does not want a child right now she was just trying to test me and my answer really dissapointed her i guess... i put on my intellectual steez and explained my how i felt i think everything is cool now ... but damn im tellin u guys she came out of beyond nowhere wit dat phone call ... ps class and fade u right ha!! .. yeah actually she did speak with one of her friends ... i dont know why girls take advice from their wack ass friends with no man... some people need to get a life lol
Producer_GyaL
IllMuzik First Lady
Holmzini said:
this is So true!!!! and next thing you know, her friend just wanted to spill trouble in your relationship so she could just meet you and have sex with you. LOL
Sorry, but friends are trouble!
Cleverwon
Paradigm P
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Battle Points: 74
She's just insecure and when that time of the month comes around, it gets multiplied by 100. But I feel you though, when you cheat on ya bitch theyre used to it. But when you try to be faithful, they think you cheating. So its like, Hey if you gonna treat me like i'm cheating when i really aint, then I might as well smash something, right?
pancakebunnny
needs more fartnoise
Women are the most wicked, destructive force known to man. I say this because I know this firsthand.
In conclusion, if you fall in love, you are asking for it. It might work, you never know. That depends more on the people than any magic formula. If you have two people who aren't over-selective, both fairly passive, both inbetween introverted and extroverted, and who are willing to compromise certain unimportant things, then HEY YOU GOT SUCCESS!!!!!
On the otherhand, if you aren't all of the above, then you're screwed, you'll fight for something that will never work, you're going to build up years of resentment, and when the split up DOES happen, you can only hope that no one will find her body.
:alcoholic
Supporting Facts:
1) You can't hate something you don't love, or haven't loved at some point. Three of the most intimate things to exist between people are Love, Hate, and strangling the life from someone while they're staring deep into your eyes...
2) The more you love something, the more vulnerable that makes you. You have to be vulnerable, because you have to share knowledge you wouldn't normally share. In order to love something, you have to open the windows, unlock the doors, and make dramatic speeches in your underwear. Soiled underwear.
3) The more you love something, and that something doesn't work as expected, the more you turn that disappointment into resentment, anger, hurt, rage, and eventually beer and belts. Well.... maybe not belts.
2) The more you love something, the more vulnerable that makes you. You have to be vulnerable, because you have to share knowledge you wouldn't normally share. In order to love something, you have to open the windows, unlock the doors, and make dramatic speeches in your underwear. Soiled underwear.
3) The more you love something, and that something doesn't work as expected, the more you turn that disappointment into resentment, anger, hurt, rage, and eventually beer and belts. Well.... maybe not belts.
In conclusion, if you fall in love, you are asking for it. It might work, you never know. That depends more on the people than any magic formula. If you have two people who aren't over-selective, both fairly passive, both inbetween introverted and extroverted, and who are willing to compromise certain unimportant things, then HEY YOU GOT SUCCESS!!!!!
On the otherhand, if you aren't all of the above, then you're screwed, you'll fight for something that will never work, you're going to build up years of resentment, and when the split up DOES happen, you can only hope that no one will find her body.
:alcoholic
pancakebunnny
needs more fartnoise
really?? thanks! I got it on GoOgle!
No, seriously though, how long have you and her been together for, Holmz? I think you said you haven't known her for long... If so, Mss Ma'am needs to not push things. If they happen, then they do. If they don't, so be it. You don't want things to happen faster than normal just because one person is feeling insecure or something. That only builds resentment, frustration, and anger. (This I learned after a 3 year experiment, destined to fail from the start.) When things DO pop off without rushing the issue, you get to enjoy them. Otherwise... D R A M A A A A A!!!!
In due time, young Holmzini. In due time...
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No, seriously though, how long have you and her been together for, Holmz? I think you said you haven't known her for long... If so, Mss Ma'am needs to not push things. If they happen, then they do. If they don't, so be it. You don't want things to happen faster than normal just because one person is feeling insecure or something. That only builds resentment, frustration, and anger. (This I learned after a 3 year experiment, destined to fail from the start.) When things DO pop off without rushing the issue, you get to enjoy them. Otherwise... D R A M A A A A A!!!!
In due time, young Holmzini. In due time...
SPEAKING OF FEMALES!!! LADIES...... I'm a bachelor again! Who want's to be the Lil' Kim to my Scott Storch? I'm a Pices, I like cappuccinos, intelligent Hip-Hop, and literature, and I'm diverse, creative, abstract, and not typical. You can reach me at 1-800-HornDog or email me at cYBerStaLkER43563@creepy.com